Now you have come to terms with a deeper sense of who you are. Write down a new affirmation for each negative story/experience.
E.g. Experience: My step dad treating me differently to my siblings made me feel I was not good enough to be loved. I challenged this belief and realised that it was not true, of course I was worthy enough to be loved. My new affirmation: I am more than good enough exactly as I am.
Every morning journal 5 things or more that you like about yourself. (Get into the habit of having a positive self perception for 30 days or more!)